Wednesday, November 06, 2013

Refusing to Worry

"Put more energy into trusting Me and enjoying My Presence [rather than trying to control your circumstances]. Don't let your well-being depend on your circumstances. Instead, connect your joy to My precious promises:

"I am with you and will watch over you wherever you go. 

"I will meet all your needs according to My glorious riches.

"Nothing in creation will be able to separate you from My love" (Jesus Calling, 11/5).

In these times when we are being called out the the Egypt of trust in government into the wilderness of total dependence on God, these are good words on which to build our foundation.  We must not worry, but bring all our needs to our Father, knowing that He will care for us (1 Peter 5:7).

"I know how to live on almost nothing or with everything. I have learned the secret of living in every situation, whether it is with a full stomach or empty, with plenty or little. For I can do everything through Christ, who gives me strength." (Philippians 4:12, 13 NLT)

"And I am convinced that nothing can ever separate us from God’s love. Neither ... our fears for today nor our worries about tomorrow ... nothing in all creation will ever be able to separate us from the love of God that is revealed in Christ Jesus our Lord." (Romans 8:38, 39 NLT)

Wednesday, September 25, 2013

Sunday, May 26, 2013

Loved

What is the point of all our doing if we never take time to rest in God's presence? So many things that He created -- trees, grass, birds ... deep ocean creatures ... stars and planets -- they do not strive to be noticed or accomplish. They delight us simply because they are. Watching wind and light playfully interact in treetops, admiring the deep richness of oceans and the vast beauty of skies, these are enough for me. Is it perhaps not enough for God as well? 

After all, we are His children. Do I love my children because of what they do for me? Of course not; I love them simply for who they are, because they are. I am loved, must be loved, must allow myself to receive love, in the same way. 

Father, open our hearts to receive your lavish, limitless love. 

Thursday, May 02, 2013

Some Home School Curriculum Reviews

This week, I have been blessed to have LOTS of time to myself while accompanying my husband on a business trip. We try to do this once a year so that I have time to get away from the busy-ness of life as a home schooling mom, to be ALONE, reflect, pray, read, and be REFRESHED. It is a wonderful way to refocus, and I find that I return home refilled and ready to give again! I also find that the things I study, hear from the Lord, and talk about in the evenings with my husband are rich resources to which I return in the weeks and months to follow. (I do also spend time napping, reading a book, or watching a movie for fun, but I really treasure this time away and try my best to use it as productively as possible so that I come home more ready to serve, not more selfish and wanting lots of "time off.") If the Lord opens the opportunity for you to have some time away like this, DO IT! I pray that He will make a way for you!

This week, I spent many hours researching and talking to the Lord about our home school schedule and curriculum. There are some really great curricula that I have been interested in, and since we are coming up to a transition point in our home school, I have been wanting to look into them and see what direction we might want to go next. My older three children are entering grades 3-5, and I am also beginning to lightly include our next three (who will all be 4 and 5 years old this fall). I do not believe that learning needs to be intense at these ages, but they are all very interested and I want to encourage their excitement to be part of our school!

After spending so much time researching these curricula and reading many great reviews, I thought I'd go ahead and post my findings so that perhaps they may help another home school parent who wants to find out more about them. Just be aware that I have not actually used the first two (Trail Guide to Learning and My Father's World), so this review is simply based on my research. We did use Five in a Row a few years ago, so that review is more based on experiential knowledge. I hope it helps!

Trail Guide to Learning

Cost: $160 for Basic (teacher & student books);
$400 for Complete (includes all required books)


Pros:
  • complete curriculum (just add math)
  • lesson plans & student checklists already made - minimal/moderate prep time
  • printable student notebooks pages(or buy pre-printed)
  • multiple grade levels (starts at 3-5)
  • customized activities for each level
  • focuses on developing thinking skills
  • real “living” books
  • taught from biographical perspective
  • teaches from unit study/Beechick/Mason perspective - unified themes, copywork, dictation, geography, history as stories, nature studies (science), literature, art & music
  • supplemental Bible lessons coordinate with lessons - these focus on a character quality that ties in with the unit’s biography, including worship time, discussion, and weekly memory verses & longer memory focus for the entire unit (about 6 weeks)
  • “develops thinking skills that lead to comprehension and writing ability”
  • “uses copying and dictation process to acquire language and writing mechanics”
  • “gradually connects grammar to reading and writing naturally”
  • “builds skills naturally through reflective thinking and discussion”
  • also has optional assessment CD-ROM to evaluate student progress
  • optional lapbooks add a presentation to review/show what has been learned

Cons (for us):
  • The first three years are all centered around American History, which we have been doing already for the past 2 years through Across America. This would enable us to go deeper, but I was anticipating starting a more comprehensive world history curriculum next.
  • The following three years, which will cover World History (starting with 6th grade), have not yet been developed.
  • Will this teach from a Bible-first perspective, or merely add-on Bible themes to secular history? Here is a quote of their philosophy: “Following the example of our key historical figures, biblical principles are foundational to the comprehensive nature of this curriculum. Ideas based on pagan and secular thought systems, such as the classical approach, are not included. Instead it works with the developmental levels of children and honors their God-given time table. Following this pace in presenting new skills and content is highly motivating and helps children achieve success and understanding.”
  • The 2nd edition of the first year’s curriculum is in printing stage, so the books are only available in digital format at this time, with hard copies to be sent in late spring or summer.
  • The books used for science/nature are from an evolutionary perspective. In one review, the reviewer said that the author of Geography Matters is working on creating replacements for these books. This may be a problem with other curricula as well, not just this one.

Helpful Reviews:
“The Trail Guide looks like a promising solution for families looking for book-based unit study that takes the guess work out of the process and is easy for parents to use.”

“The curriculum is designed to teach students “How” to think rather than just “What” to think, using real books and activities with a purpose. . . . Although the curriculum seems to be biblically sound, it does not include an actual Bible curriculum. For an additional fee, users can purchase the coordinating Bible curriculum. . . . Since the authors claim the most important connection for students to make is the one between their faith and the view of the world around them, I believe this Bible curriculum should have been an included portion of this course. . . . For me, the biggest disappointment was that the checklist pages in the back of each book were not included on the CD-rom for easier printing. . . . Trail Guide to Learning: Paths of Exploration offers guidance as well as flexibility for different ages, developmental levels, and learning styles. It is true that the necessary resource materials are somewhat costly, but considering the broad use of the items over many years of schooling and the ability to use the same course with several students of different ages, we found the cost justifiable.”

Includes her own pros/cons list.

Very positive review.

This reviewer started with My Father’s World (includes a link to why it didn’t work for their family), then changed to Heart of Wisdom & Charlotte Mason (another link), and then in article why they changed to Heart of Dakota, and finally ended up with Trail Guide to Learning.


My Father’s World

Cost: $352 for Deluxe package (Bible, Social Studies, Science, Music, Art, & Read-Alouds);
$279 for Basic Package (all of the above except Read-Alouds)


Pros:
  • Nearly complete curriculum. Need to add language arts (Emma Serle’s Language Lessons is recommended), math (Singapore Math is recommended), and possibly a foreign language (Rosetta Stone is recommended).
  • Begins with Exploring Countries and Cultures, an overview of world cultures based on true stories of missionaries to teach Bible, geography, science, art, and music.
  • Continues with four-year chronological study of world history, integrating Biblical and ancient civilizations’ histories, including hands-on projects, timeline, and history notebook. Titles are: Creation to the Greeks, Rome to the Reformation, Exploration to 1850, and 1850 to Modern Times
  • Targeted for grades 3-8, with high school curriculum also available.
  • All levels are completed & published.
  • Teacher’s Manual includes daily lesson plans in a weekly chart format. Lesson planning should be minimal/moderate. Planning sheet includes blank boxes for adding language, math, reading, and foreign language assignments.
  • Integrates Jewish feasts & how they point to Jesus.
  • All history is viewed from a Christian perspective.
  • Supplemental recommended reading lists for library borrowing add read-aloud and independent reading options.
  • Science is from Creationist perspective.
  • Uses Window on the World, which we have used and very much enjoyed in the past.
  • Weekly memory verses and daily readings from Matthew.
  • Hands-on activities related to 15 countries.
  • Science focuses on different habitats coordinating with the country being studied (i.e., desert, rainforest, etc.) Also includes weekly nature walk and nature journal (ala Charlotte Mason).
  • Art projects and music from countries being studied.
  • I like the idea of exposing the children a foreign language course. At this stage, I believe Rosetta Stone includes a level that is primarily listening and speaking, not studying the grammar and writing, though those can be added as the children are ready to do so.
  • Fun activity: as you “travel” to each country in the first year, each child adds a flag sticker for that country into their own “passport.”

Cons:
  • There are separate curricula for each of the grades K-2, but these I do not feel are necessary. Grades 2-3 can begin to join in with older children in the rotation through the 5 years.
  • Language, spelling, and handwriting are not integrated. But I do enjoy using the recommended language curriculum, so that may not be a big issue.
  • Student checklists are not already prepared, though possibly I could simply copy the teacher’s planning sheet for the week and give to each child.
  • Geography information to be added to maps has to be looked up by each child in several reference books (included in curriculum). This could be quite time-consuming. I could possibly reduce the number of features to be labeled, to help reduce time spent on this.

Reviews:
2nd (albanyaloe) and 3rd (marbeewe) reviews are most helpful.

“MFW courses are clearly structured with easy-to-understand instructions. Lesson preparation time will be required primarily for gathering necessary materials, so planning ahead is essential.”
(Skip down to the 2nd-8th Grade Multi-Age Curriculum” part of the review.)

This is a mom explaining why she decided to switch AWAY from MFW mid-year to Heart of Dakota.

This is a mom explaining why she decided to switch TO MFW from another curriculum.

This is a very positive review with details why she likes it so much.

Five in a Row/Beyond Five in a Row
Cost: $35 for teacher handbook, plus any books that you decide to purchase. Books can also be checked out from library, though some may be hard to find.

Pros:
  • We enjoyed doing this before.
  • It is fun and easy.
  • There are handbooks from preschool through high school
  • We already have several of the books for Five in a Row.
  • Beyond Five in a Row uses chapter books (fewer books, so we’d want to purchase them), and I believe it’s more independent work than the first set.
  • It’s focused on keeping the family together. Olders can enjoy listening to youngers’ read-alouds, and vice versa, and then work on separate projects based on their own reading.
  • Might possibly allow for more free play time in our day. More afternoons for playing outside & pursuing interests like baking and horses & fort-building and knitting. And mommy’s naps. :)

Cons:
  • This is a very “light” curriculum, and not at all thorough or systematic.
  • In the past, I have found that some of the books are harder to get.
  • Need to add systematic language and math. May also need to add a lot of other content if we want to study broad history/science subjects. The focus of this study is to allow students time to go deep in areas of interest on their own, but I’m not sure how well undirected/mom-dependent study would work for our family. In this season, I need to minimize my planning time to maximize my time with the children.
  • It is biblically oriented, but not biblically based. Does not include Bible studies organically, so Bible study would need to be added.
  • The lessons do not build upon each other. It’s more an eclectic approach designed to simply enjoy learning than a systematic study of any particular subject. (This could be a “pro” or a “con.”) :) Their statement: “Five in a Row Publishing has no intention of modifying our curriculum either now or in the future to accomodate [governmental core standards]. We remain committed to our long-term goal of helping children fall in love with both reading and learning as they discover the wonderful world of education on their own terms. . . . Now more than ever, FIAR offers parents a clear choice between trying to fill pails or light fires. Our students have consistently tested well above grade level in standardized testing for two decades and we believe students who are taught using the thoroughly proven Five in a Row philosophy will continue to be both academic and social leaders among their peers.”

Helpful Reviews:

The first two reviews basically confirm my concerns about the time required to make this a full-featured curriculum.

This review brings out the positives and why I have GREAT memories of our time using Five in a Row when our older children were in the early grades.

More very positive reviews.

Other curricula that have similarities, but about which I have not done as much research: Hearts of Dakota, Tapestry of Grace, Heart of Wisdom, Story of the World.

I think all of the above are great options. While doing all this research, I prayed that the Lord would direct my thoughts and help me to see what will be best for our particular family in this particular season. Unexpectedly, I feel that for now it is none of the above. After we finish up the study we are currently working on (Across America by Hewitt Homeschooling - which we are greatly enjoying, by the way), we will take some time to go deeper in a few areas of interest (like helping the neighbor with her horses, baking, sewing, and gardening), while reading more books and watching great documentaries about some of the people and places we have studied (like Lewis and Clark, Thomas Jefferson, etc.). And, of course, continuing our math and language studies. Not to mention enjoying our new baby who is due in July! I look forward to revisiting these curricula again in the future, seeing new develpments, and starting something new!



Wednesday, March 20, 2013

The Glorious Mess

Discontentment creeps in so easily.

"Sky, land, and sea, heavy and saturated with God--why do I always forget?" (Ann Voskamp, One Thousand Gifts).

I know why I forget. It's because I look around me and see the mess. After a long day, working hard, teaching, training, serving, loving, encouraging, cleaning, organizing, bathing . . . . After all that, I look around and all I see is what is still undone. The piles of laundry waiting to be washed, more piles waiting to be put away, the sink of dishes, the unswept stairs, the bathrooms grimy and cluttered. It's hard to feel I've accomplished anything when so much remains to be done.

In all this, where is Your glory, Lord?

I remember first longing to see Your glory when I read this is a young girl, captivated by the imagery:

"For the earth will be filled with the knowledge of the glory of the LORD as the waters cover the sea" (Habakkuk 2:14).

Every crack and cranny, valley and mountain filled . . . covered, overflowing, heavy . . . with the glory . . . the radiant, weighty, precious glory of the Lord.

It should be beautiful, shouldn't it? Not messy and half finished, never fully done?

Why am I so content when completed tasks surround me and so quickly discontented when reminded of all that remains to be done? This cannot be like You, for You are patient in the process, every messy, incomplete step of the way, as you gradually transform us into Your image . . . from glory to glory (2 Corinthians 3:18).

What do You see, Lord? Let me see through Your eyes.

"I see a messy, bloody Man on a cross, heart hanging out in anguish of love rejected. I do not see beauty as You see it. You want it neat and tidy, wrapped in shiny paper and tied with a bow. My glory does look like that sometimes, but often it looks broken and bleeding and raw. Sometimes it's dirty floors and smelly trash cans, sinks of dishes and piles of laundry.

"Whitewashed tombs can look beautiful on the outside, but they have no life in them. I love life, teeming, swarming, embracing, sloppy, smiling, laughing, crying, screaming, sweating, crayons-on-the-walls life, in all its beautiful, glorious mess. Don't allow yourself to be discouraged by the wake that is left behind after all the running, jumping, tickling, playing--I am in it all. And I am here to help you clean it up! Not so that it can stay that way, but so we can start again tomorrow with a fresh canvas ready to receive all the color and streaks and splashes and splatters, the handprints and tears and joy of another masterpiece being created for My enjoyment.

"You want to create a snapshot of perfection, and your energy is drained when you don't accomplish it by the end of each day. But that is not what I am looking for. If you aren't careful, your desire for completion can become an idol, because it can keep you from wanting what I want. It can blind you, preventing you from seeing what I see, hindering you from running freely, taking risks, and trusting me on this steep, rocky, glorious, hard, exhilarating journey I have set before you. It can dominate your mind, harden your heart, and cause you to forget . . . to become discontent.

"Cast off this idol! Allow Me to fill you with joy and peace . . . with contentment . . . as you behold My glory here and now . . . right in the middle of the glorious mess. Come, make some more messes with Me! We will have so much fun together, and then we'll clean it up so we can do it all over again! Come! Experience life with Me!"

"Listen! My beloved! Look! Here he comes,
leaping across the mountains, bounding over the hills. . . .
My beloved spoke and said to me, 
"Arise, my darling, my beautiful one, come with me. . . . 
Arise, come, my darling; 
my beautiful one, come with me" 
(Song of Solomon 2:8, 10, 13).

Wednesday, March 13, 2013

Living Our Story

I sometimes feel like I'm living in a fairy tale. Every morning I wake to beauty surrounding me. The view from each window of Pleasant Home is breathtaking. Who am I, who are we, that God should bless us this way? I have seven children on earth thriving in this place where we have been planted, running around with the chickens, riding bikes in the dirt, exploring to heart's content. While there is plenty of work to do each day, I feel as if we've been given a little piece of Eden to enjoy and steward for His glory. The only reason I can think of for it all is that He is good, and He loves to give good gifts to His children. And so, with all my heart, I thank Him.

He whispers in my heart, "You are my child, and I am showing my goodness to you ... and through you.This is not just for you, but also to encourage others as they see my goodness in your life--to encourage them to trust Me, to dream with Me, to pursue the dreams that I've placed in their hearts. Others' stories will not look exactly like yours, for I have a unique story to tell through each life. But your story can encourage them to live out the story I have written for them to the fullest. I am not a bland and boring God, satisfied with lives of ritual and rote obedience. I am a Lover, desiring to live out a story of romance and adventure with my beloved."

The voice of the Man I love!
Here he comes, bounding over the mountains,
skipping over the hills!
My darling speaks; He is saying to me,
"Get up, My love! My beauty!
Come away!"
Song of Songs 2:8, 10

What adventure does He have for you today?


Sunday, January 06, 2013

A Time for Everything

My favorite devotional book for the past year has been Jesus Calling by Sarah Young. I first ran across it a few years ago in a coffee shop owned by a friend of ours (which is, sadly, now closed), and it intrigued me immediately. It is written from the perspective of Jesus talking directly to us. What really surprised me is how similar it sounded to the way I hear Jesus talking to me during my quiet times. It seems that Sarah Young and I talk to the same person! (Imagine that!) After waiting a long time (and giving copies to others), I finally obtained a copy that I kept and began to enjoy for myself.

Here is one of my favorite themes from the book:

"Stop trying to work things out before their times have come. Accept the limitations of living one day at a time. When something comes to your attention, ask Me whether or not it is part of today's agenda. If it isn't, release it into My care and go on about today's duties. When you follow this practice, there will be a beautiful simplicity about your life: a time for everything and everything in its time" (Jesus Calling, entry for March 29).

"For everything there is a season,
a right time for every intention under heaven" 
(Ecclesiastes 3:1).

As a new year begins, it is good to revisit this truth. It is the only way I know of to keep from going crazy when the demands and pressures of life press down. There is always far more to do than I have time to do. But God "has given us everything we need for life and godliness" (2 Peter 1:3). Therefore, if I have more on my agenda than I can accomplish today in God's strength and peace, then I am trying to do more than He has asked of me. I will put it in His hands and trust that He will provide another time for it -- or else it isn't really necessary anyway. It helps me to list out the specific tasks and projects on my mind, ask Him about each one, and release them into His hands. Then I choose to trust Him to give me the ability to accomplish what He has for me that day and to let go of what needs to wait.

I thank You, Father, for the things you will enable me to accomplish today. I thank you also for those that will not get done, for You hold them securely in Your hands. I trust You to make them possible at the right time.

Tuesday, January 01, 2013

My Blessings


I have been soul-searching about this blog. Obviously I haven't posted on here consistently in a long time. I haven't known quite what the purpose of it is now. At first it was just to post my thoughts about whatever. Then it was to share about my family. Then about adoption. Then came Facebook, and sharing about my family became much easier. Anyway, you know the story. I'm sure many others have had a similar journey.

But I still want to share on this forum. I love to post things that might encourage others. But sometimes doing so can make me self-conscious and overly interested in what others think about what I post. So I have decided to try again. Only this time I have removed comments so that this can just be me sharing. I hope that it is encouraging.

In the meantime, above is an updated picture of my seven blessings. And we have another on the way ... due July 2!

God bless.